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Hello, I am 36 years old & my wife 34. i have greatly interested in Anal sex but my wife scared about the Anal intercourse, I often tried to make her convince saying, she will ever feel heavenly pleasure if she do that. sometimes she showing her interests, but soon after she is not. I want someone should provide me some effective idea, so that i can convince her for a great Anal sex.
So this is a delicate subject… If not for the anonymity of this site I would be WAY too embarrassed to respond to this, and I”m not quite sure from your post if your wife is scared of receiving anal sex or if you are interested in having her use a sex toy on you as Personal”s post seems to suggest, but I will fill you in on how it worked out for me and my boyfriend. I was very nervous about trying anal sex too (receiving it), and since I was a virgin when my boyfriend and I started dating, sex in general was very new to me and still a little scary. My boyfriend asked me to try it and I flat out told him no, never.
He told me that it was ok if I truly didn”t want to or if I was too afraid, he would respect that. He asked that I try it just once and told me that if I absolutely hated it or if it was too painful he would never pressure me to do it again, and he said that he would never want to make me do something that was unpleasant for me.Hearing him say that made it much less intimidating since I then felt free to make up my own mind about whether or not I liked it.We took it very slow, started with toys to help me relax, KY jelly to make it more comfortable, and soft music, candles, etc. to set the mood.It was a little uncomfortable at first but it wasn”t painful so I was able to keep an open mind – the important thing was that I didn”t feel like I was being forced or coerced into doing it. And now, 5 years later, it is still a frequent and VERY enjoyable part of our sexual relationship.My suggestion would be first and foremost: make sure your wife knows that you don”t want it to be a painful or uncomfortable experience for her. Make it clear that if she hates it you won”t force her or pressure her to keep doing it. If she agrees to try it once, make it as relaxing and romantic for her as possible. Use lubricant to make it more comfortable. And remind her that just like regular intercourse it gets better and more enjoyable with practice